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Post by Oberstleutnant Insipid on Dec 14, 2006 15:14:14 GMT 10
Rinna, I've said it before, I'll say it again: SHUT UP. You are not making things better!
Fiery, Sho, Light: Stop being immature flaming bitches!
Bishy: Thankyou for being the only nice post in this topic.
STOP ARGUING EVERYBODY.
Now, on-topic, here's my advice to Cailleach Beara.
Read Bishy's post. Your parents have a reason to kick you out if you have a child: because they don't want to be responsible. I have read a lot of sad, sad stories about young parents who are forced to bring up a child all on their own without even any friends. I suggest you think a lot before you make a decision, and maybe talk things through with your significant other.
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Post by somebody probably on Dec 14, 2006 17:15:47 GMT 10
You're right. Shut up and get back in the porno cinema. I never said it did?  Anyway, have the baby. srsly It'll change your life forever. |
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Post by Nemesis on Dec 14, 2006 17:42:35 GMT 10
Now, on-topic, here's my advice to Cailleach Beara. Read Bishy's post. Your parents have a reason to kick you out if you have a child: because they don't want to be responsible. I have read a lot of sad, sad stories about young parents who are forced to bring up a child all on their own without even any friends. I suggest you think a lot before you make a decision, and maybe talk things through with your significant other.
But here's mine. It's your own choice if you want to have a baby or not but you have to think... Do you really want to have this baby.... and I mean 'really' sure. Cause I mean I do kind of know how it feels.... well besides the female part. Just think it through before you make this life changing decision. |
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Post by somebody probably on Dec 14, 2006 17:48:59 GMT 10
I leave you all with one old favourite pic.  That is all. Bye, thread filled with crap. Lock plz. |
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Post by Dagger on Dec 14, 2006 17:55:59 GMT 10
I think babies are lovely. ^^ I'd love a baby, but not as of yet. We're both too young and are incapable of providing properly for a child so put that out your head for the moment and find somebody nice. ^^
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Post by Fuyuko on Dec 14, 2006 18:38:39 GMT 10
Get married at a reasonable age (mid to late twenties). THEN have children. 
2) I preferably want my first child before I'm 23. I plan on having a lot of children, both biological and non, since I'm also planning on adopting kids. |
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Post by Max Füchs-Kojote on Dec 14, 2006 19:11:56 GMT 10
It's like both Bishy and Dooms say. If your parents are against you having a baby, who do you think will help you support it? Do you have a well-paying job? Will the de facto/boyfriend/girlfriend have a well-paying job?
Do you know why teen pregnancy is considered a youth issue? That is why.
It gets worse. Until the child is old enough to be able to at least keep clean, feed itself and clothe itself, you'll become a slave to it for quite some time. Years on end. That's stress enough for adults who also need to have well-paying jobs and don't suffer from depression.
What about you? You still are young, you're depressed, you will need a well-paying job, which usually requires degrees, especially now. And if you're going to be having different people around, what do you think the chances are that the biological father is going to help you care for it? Most parents usually are in pairs when they care for them, and it's still difficult.
One child is difficult enough. If you're planning to have a lot of children, you seriously will need to be diplomatic, you will have to keep your problems to yourself and paste a smile on your face, you cannot favor the girls, or the boys.
And even after all this, a social worker probably will still end up taking the 'bundle of joy' away. Do you really want to work yourself to the bone, only to have the baby taken from you? I think not.
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Please reconsider, and do not do this just to spite your parents.
And don't yell at me for my remarks, I'm just being blunt. I'm not insulting you in any shape or form. I'm not being oppressive and I'm not being discriminatory.
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Post by Oberstleutnant Insipid on Dec 14, 2006 19:23:59 GMT 10
*claps*
Max wins the topic.
Seriously, taking care of children is HARD, and you'll have to devote years, maybe even most of your life taking care of him/her/it. It's not just a spontaneous decision.
If the flaming is over now, CIVILISED DISCUSSION PLZ.
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Post by iBishyT on Dec 14, 2006 19:51:09 GMT 10
Doom: I feel loved. =3
Everyone: Wait...is Lulu girl bisexual, or a lesbian desperate for a baby? I'm getting quite confused considering some of the things being said here...
Also, even if you don't get married...wait. Wait a very long time.
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Post by Matt_TY on Dec 14, 2006 21:17:10 GMT 10
LORD NELSON'S TROUSERS, when did I blink and SVMB was replaced with Gaia?
Seriously, folks, this isn't the place for it.
Topic not locked (because I'm already getting complaints about locking the other two), but... I just don't understand what part of "PG-13" translates out to "Please talk about your sex life here."
Also... Max wins the thread.
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Post by The Pletch on Dec 14, 2006 22:04:09 GMT 10
Like what!? What am I going to do, apart from *Snip*.
Anyways, my life is ruined already. A baby would just make everything better.
Zae, why do you keep bringing up my self-harming? And how do you know it doesn't work? Don't get nothin' growing in your stomach. If it doesn't ruin your life, it's gonna ruin the kid's. Sure, you'll be happy while it's really young, but what are you going to do after toddler age? Murder him? |
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Post by Sergeant Dull on Dec 15, 2006 1:41:55 GMT 10
*Snorts* Yeah, of course.
Right, fine. I'm sick of your stupid posts. From now on, your insults are falling on deaf ears. A BREAKTHROUGH! Yeah i'm late. Also, wanted to post this yesterday, but got thrown off the internet. So uh. Imma postin my redo. You're disgusting, you're whorish, and you're really facking annoying. Please listen to my advice. Ignore the offending posts. Stop the awkward/childish retorts. Take note of serious posts. For the sake of peace, please? ^ However that is late.  So. What really makes you think you'll be better off with a baby at your age? |
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Post by iBishyT on Dec 15, 2006 3:28:24 GMT 10
Matt: Quite simply because these days children who are 12 and above practically know every sex word in the dictionary plus the gruesome descriptions, not to mention the majority drink, smoke AND take drugs at that age too (not at the same time per-cé). The reason why everything here seems to turn to sex talk is quite simply because the audience group for PG-13s are much more mentally aware these days.
PG-13 is the new 15.
Also, no offense, but no-one here has actually talked about their sex lives. That's a bit of an exaggeration, even for you. ^^"
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Post by Fuyuko on Dec 15, 2006 3:37:03 GMT 10
It's not about rebellion... I guess I just wanna feel loved, and I'm desperate to prove to people that I'm not as KIPPERLY as my parents are.
And yeah, I'm bisexual, but with a strong preference for women.
I don't know, my family is borderline-dysfunctional. I blame them.
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Post by Sergeant Dull on Dec 15, 2006 3:42:02 GMT 10
Aww, I see what you mean, it's unfortunate...
How abouts not blaming others and just make a move for yourself, all i'm saying is try making things better for yourself, and believe me when I say a child won't help.
Really.
If you want to feel loved. why not hang about good friends s'more? It shhould work, as far as I know. Find a partner or something? As in, serious like.
Should SVMB be for life discussion?
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