I want to have a baby.

Shut up and get back in the car.

You're right. Shut up and get back in the porno cinema.

I hope you enjoy your itty bitty baby.

Lulu (i'ma gonna nickname you that from now on as I can't be bothered to type your name), you're not doing yourself any favours from this topic.

On a level, I agree with Fiery (to a point), in the sense that you are acting silly.

I'm going to go through this topic step by step:
-Once apon a time, there was a girl who was pressured by her b/f to have sex unprotected. She got pregnant, he left her, leaving her to live off welfare, bringing up a whiny, loud and uncontrollable child all on her own. Not only did she end up suffering for severe stress, but also the general opinion about her changed. She was no longer herself. No-one wanted to help her as they all agreed that she was too young to be a mother, she got herself into that mess. She shouldv'e known better.

A story all too familiar not just with teenagers, but adults too. Women who have gotten pregnant and are then forced to bring up this bundle of joy on their own with no help whatsoever. And they didn't suffer from depression. Having a baby isn't like buying a hamster. It's not something you can keep in a cage, coo at and then feed...wash, rinse, repeat...a baby is a human being, one that demands attention...every single f*cking second of the day. 4:00 in the morning? Yup. Time when you could be earning a living or hanging with friends? Yup. Evening when your favorite programme is on? Yup. Bedtime? Yup. Midnight? Yup. And it's bad enough without having to breastfeed.
So, if you enjoy many sleepless nights, looking after a loud, screaming and uncontrollable 'bundle of joy', with no help from your own parents because they dissaprove, all on your own, spiralling you down into the depths of sever stress and mental pain, making the depression worsen rather then heal...if you enjoy the thought of being as impatient as a child waiting for christmas just so you can do yourself more damage then you need...then by all means get pregnant.

There is no cure, and a baby at this point of your life is the complete opposite. Live. Fall in love. Make (protected) love. Get married at a reasonable age (mid to late twenties). THEN have children.

Also, an attitude like "I'll just wait until he's done with his girlfriend" is not only looked down upon by us and the general public, but it is also disgusting and dispicable. That type of attitude belongs on the Jeremy Kyle show, not in you. You are better than that. Besides, you don't want sloppy seconds do you? If this guy can simply leave this girl "when he's done with her", what hope is there for him to be a good father? Heck, I bet even the thought of being a father is enough to wear a condom 24/7 "just in case".

In short, for your sake, forget about having a baby, at least until you're married.

Besides, if you don't beleive me about all the stressfull parenting, sit your mother down and ask what it was like to bring YOU up (it's common theory that behavior is passed down genetically, so chances are when/if you do have a baby*, he/she will turn out like you).

Now, let's stop this orgy bitch fight. There is absolutly no need whatsoever to resolve to vulger name calling such as "slut", "whore" or whathaveyou.




*MARRIED IN YOUR LATE TWENTIES!

I have no comments or opinions on the topic at hand. I just wanted to say one thing.

The ban hammer's going to be getting anxious.

^Yeah.